This touch the listening of the other is one of the bases of the Californian massage, a nonmedical method of massage appeared in the Sixties in the United States.
Skin, privileged body of the pleasure
The Californian massage is initially a massage releasing which privileges great movements slow and enveloping which covers all the body. Practised between partners, this massage enables them to slacken mutually, to make itself available while leaving side all the concern of the everyday life. To agree time to find itself, to thus deal one with the other creates a space of division and an environment of intimacy and complicity favourable with the exchange in love.
720.000 nervous terminations to stimulate
The total touch and unifying Californian massage revives also the sensitivity of the body by stimulating the few 720.000 (!) nervous terminations which make skin the privileged body of the pleasure. Two women out of three complain that their male partner sufficiently does not cherish them during the sexual pressure. They do not express only their need for preliminary genital caresses to the act itself, but more largely their desire than their partner does not neglect the remainder of the body. The massage of the erotogenic zones, the bottom of the back, the interior of the legs and the nape of the neck, poke and amplify the desire, prepare with a more intense pleasure. Into érotisant all the body, they divide the sexual load too often concentrated on the genitals and source of shortened and unsatisfactory reports/ratios.
Precipitation, brusqueness, lack of sensitivity or delicacy deprive the two partners of the delights of the sensuality and the extase of the pleasure. This touch which feels animates the other and it, develops it and confidence gives him, gives us desire for meeting it with deepest of ourselves.